So...... I finally figured out what is setting off my service engine light after like a year of it being on. 
Um... well I noticed when I start up the car, it always clicks like 10 times and the lights flash accordingly. 
That is probably not normal, but I don't know what that issue is. 
Well, I realized that if I turn my headlights on before I start the car, the service engine light does not come on. However.... If I turn the headlights off then the SE light comes on (even while I am driving) Anyone have any suggestions?