my fuel pump relay is blowing.......please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!11

How is the relay "Blowing".

Fuses "Blow" but relays usually have some sort of operating coil failure and will not change state or the contacts fail to make "contact" when the relay is energised.

Did you mean your Fuel pump fuse is blowing?, which, if the wiring is not shorted , usually means a new fuel pump is needed.

Please give more info so someone can help you out.

Alont